I'm looking for a relationship that will last a lifetime. I'm a t12 paraplegic for nine years and I'm very independent, with lots of interest and hobbies, (ask me about them). However, I'm lonely and would love to meet someone who understands the feeling and also the special issues that go with being disabled. I'm tired of trying to educate men that I've dated on those facts of my life, only to find they can't comprehend or accept my differences. I'm not looking for a one night stand, I'm looking for a lifetime friend and mate. Please don't intrude in my life or waste our time if you are not interested in the same thing. I am a Christian and I am looking for a man who is also a Christian, again please don't respond to me if you are not that special man.